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10 Ways to Know A Guy is Into You

We all know that Men are from Mars and Women are From Pluto or some junk like that. In other words, we just do things and think differently. We as women want a man to be compassionate, attentive and loving but before you can get all of those goods you need to make sure you’re with the right one. Here are 10 ways to know a guy is into you.

He is attentive.

1. When a man is really into you they WILL make time unless being in a relationship of any kind is not on the top of their list. You see, a guy can really like you, but just don’t want to date seriously or be in a relationship, period. They may not be ready. You have to be strong enough to move on and stamp FRIEND on his forehead. Make room for a new guy that is ready and have the hots for you.

He Spends Money On You.

2. Oh how I can hear people going off on this one. But, for the independent women who feel they don’t need a man to pay for anything, there is nothing wrong with a guy paying. For some men it is their way of expressing how they feel. Don’t shut them down. Even the poorest guy will find a way to buy something even if it is just a card.

They want to spend time with you in public.

3. What’s up with this new thing called ‘hanging out’? FYI, hanging out at your house or his house is not a date, ladies. When a guy is into you he wants to show you off. You might want to consider it a red flag if he doesn’t. He might have someone else or have other major issues that you probably don’t want to deal with.

He speaks about his future with you in it.

4. Probably not on the first few dates but it will happen. He might talk about an event he would like to go to with the hopes you will join him.

He tells his friends about you.

5. He’s showing you off to his best buds because he needs approval from them. Yes, I know if there are any men reading this they will be a huge denial, but women do it too. We all want our closest friend to think that our choice is a good one.

Things will just happen.

6. Have you ever been a relationship where it’s a struggle? There is always something that pops up that interrupts getting closer. When a guy is digging you, you won’t have to try so hard. Everything will be well balanced where it leaves little guessing.

He actually says he is into you and want a relationship.

7. Actions are definitely louder than words, but most men are practical and don’t beat around the bush when they have feelings. He will just let you know.

His attitude changes when you are around.

8.  He is happy to hear from you and/or see you. You light up his day and put a smile on his face.

He goes out his way to do things for you.

9. My husband cannot cook. But before we were married he tried cooking several times for me. Before I met him, I dated a guy that would do my dishes, take out the garbage and would buy me random household items that he saw I needed and this was all before giving up the cookie, so take notes. lol.

Even on his death bed he will call to let you know he is not going to make it.

10. No more getting stood up for you, girl. When a guy really likes you he will call to let you know he can’t make it and why. He will be very specific and apologetic.



Author: Jessica Brown

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